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InfernoXtreme
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Name: egrs
Location: Florida, United States
Gender: Male
Interests: Okay, let's get the socially acceptable ones out of the way: Writing (music, stories, screenplays), Theater, drums, piano, singing (who knew?), my band...
Now the things that make me an outcast and the reason why females shun me in general: video games, anime, manga, J-pop, Japanese pop culture in general, Melodic Heavy Metal (its a genre...), Sci-Fi and more!
Expertise: Writing. Music, in particular. My other writings do not demonstrate expertise, but rather, an acute sense of ineptitude
Occupation: Student
Message: message me
Member Since:
8/10/2002
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| You know, I don't know why people fall for other people so often. I haven't for almost a year now and I can tell you exactly time.
Whenever you fall for someone, it almost never works out. And on the rare chance it does...
It just fucking sucks
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| So just how normal is it to not feel any regret or sadness whatsoever after breaking off a year and a half long relationship? Also, how normal is it to feel like you'll never fall head over heels for a girl
again, not because of a traumatic experience, but because you just don't want to.
Will I ever love again? Realistically, probably. But it seems unbelievable that I'd ever WANT that to happen again. Life is SO much better when you're single.
I think I figured out love. When you pare it down, love starts with lust, which turns into passion, and ends finally in comfort.
Lust is fairly easy to define. Lust is all about sex (whether you choose to be sexually active or not). It's all about hotness, the body, the babe, the look. You know lust.
Passion is the next key part of the "love" formula. Passion is that addictive can't-get-enough-of-you feeling you get when you first enter a relationship with someone. That feeling when you wanna be around them all the time, when they're all you can think about, when you sit there waiting for them to call, to get online, to text you. Even if you've never been in a relationship before, you've definitely experienced passion's younger cousin, infatuation. Take that feeling, apply it to a relationship (i.e. a situation where it's reciprocated), and you've got passion.
Comfort is the final stage. The comfort of being involved in something familiar. The comfort of knowing that you don't have to go home alone no matter what. The comfort of someone accepting you no matter what, even if you fart under the covers.
I think a relationship forms when two people are attracted enough to each other physically and are both tired of "the chase", as it were. The chase being defined as dating around and doing whatever you can to finally FIND a relationship.
But it seems so clear now. Love, as an idea, is a myth. It doesn't exist. Sure, lots of people THINK it exists. Yes, I just deconstructed the millenia old idea of love.
But you're all just fooling yourselves. You can tell me you're wrong. But then you'll realize that what you're calling love is actually just lust, passion, comfort, any combination of these.
Love is a misnomer. Love is a lie. Love is a made up idea to make people feel better about themselves. Love is a fairy tale. Love is bogus.
Love....?
Psh! Grow up already.
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| It's always the special ones that stop caring.
"The one you want, and the one who wants you are never, ever the same."
She's gooood...
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| At what point after a break up is it prudent to change your facebook status?
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| Have you ever been sick of being sick of someone?
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